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female
age
30-35,
*liceinunderland
writes:Hey guys, I like this guy, well, man. He's a few years older than me and we work together. We are only to be professional around each other as that is what is required of our posts. He is higher than me at work. On my third day of working with him I asked him a question after one of my colleagues. For her he didn't get out of his seat, but for me, he got up stood in front of my desk, looked me straight in the eye and said: "Look, you made me get up now."As he spoke he gestured down his abdomen with his hands. I blushed as he stared waiting for response. I think I may have taken it wrong in my mind. The next week the same happened. But he said: "I'll get up for you..."Since then we have developed a sort of friendship. As professionally as possible. But what gets me is at lunch or on breaks if I see him and we talk, he asks about what I'm getting up to at weekends or what I've done. Yet if I ask him he seems to always answer with "Not much." or "I don't know."Why is he so secretive? I know he has a girlfriend. Why does he get to ask me, but I can't ask him?I'll admit I do fancy him. Sometimes when he is speaking or teaching me something new I will correct him of he stumbles on his words and he smiles when I laugh. He also stares at me a lot. Somedays more than others. Somedays he completely ignores my presence. Sometimes we have the odd sly joke. Involving a little dirty minded play. I can't tell if he's just being friendly or he's into me. In meetings, which we have weekly, he always stands near me. I've moved seats every week to see if he changes where he stands. He always stands by me and always stares as I play with my hair and he always ends up looking down at himself and adjusts his suit. Is he into me? What do I do? Can I be subtle and trigger more from him?Thanks guys.
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (15 April 2011):
just come out and ask him if he is into you or wants to be, or ask him out for a movie drinks dinner, or hint at that see what takes place after that.
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