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writes:i met my husband when i was 19 goin on 20 had my first child an got married at age 21,we started off with barely any money an no home, I am 31 now with 3 children he now runs a successful business owns an expenisive car an money he doesnt know what to do with in the bank,we still do not own a home.I on the other hand was a stay home mom never recieved money before until a few months ago a salary of 500,i am depress tired an stressed out ,he thinks a man must be above his wife an so i am havin trouble gettin a career started hav nothin to call my own an now hes sucessful has left me behind.i have no money my sex drive is out the window i am exausted an i dont look at my self the way i used too i feel so sad an lost at times i am thinking of making that step to leave him i really am in need of some advice or suggestions
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Try to get involved in his business projects, or get more involved in your kid's school activities, organizing bake sales, events, dances, soccer practice and stuff. There is a lot you can do on your free time while he's at work and the kid's are at school. For example, a course on cooking, sewing, painting, etc... something from which you could do a home business. Try to get some exercise every day, and don't forget to eat healthy. Go out with your friends, or re-establish contact with them.
Remember that even though you are a couple, you are still individuals and each other need its professional and personal achievements and goals.
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