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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday because he was being really dramatic and was pissed that I wasn't going to pick him up at the airport because I had class (I haven't seen him for three months since he lives in another state by choice). I had offered to see him today originally, but he was pissed i wouldn't see him right when he got in. anyway, i said I would be with him again yesterday before he got in, but his friend still picked him up and I still went to my class. I called him after class and he was busy, and when he called me back I was asleep. Then I work up early today for work and received voicemails from him crying saying I must not love him since I didn't see him right when he got in. I called him and tried to explain that it didn't mean i didn't love him at all, i was just super tired after class, (got out at 9pm) and had to get up early for work the next day. Besides, i didn't have class tuesday and would have been able to see him all that night. Plus, it didn't make much sense to drive an hour to go see him when i would just be going to sleep right when i got there anyway. well, he wouldn't stop yelling at me and crying and complaining so i just hung up since i had to get ready for work. he then called and left a message that he couldn't believe he was doing this but was dumping me. we've been off and on for six years, and he's never dumped me. he said i was a cold hearted bitch for not ditching class and picking him up, even though he chose to live in another state!! he should be dying to come see me, whenever i'm available. anyway, my question is if this is a good reason for him to break up with me? if he really loves me, would he really do this? or is he just too insecure that i don't love him (even though i do love him). Should i have dropped everything to be with him or not? i just feel like he's being a big baby and just broke up with me so he could be the one to do it, since i broke up with him saturday. any thoughts?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 He was actually CRYING because you didn't pick him up?
The picking up at the airport. It depends, he had be gone for 3 months... you never ever skip a class for anything? It seems a bit cold...
But crying over it?
It seems he is to emotional and you are to cold. Not a match made in heaven.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): It doesn't seem this is meant to be or meant to work out. It's probably for the best and you'll both meet someone else more compatible.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (13 April 2011):
I think it doesn't matter whether he's right or not. I guess you are not meant to be together. It's very obvious you don't see the relationship as he does. And I guess you will end up breaking up for whatever other reason you can find.From my particular point of view I would live away from the person I love. And, if the person I love comes to my place after three months I would ditch the class to see her. And I certainly wouldn't go to sleep without seeing her. But again, I don't think it's right or not. It's just incompatible with his point of view.
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