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*harlieboy
writes:I have been having an affair with a woman for 6 months.. She was living 300 miles away from me. I wanted to break it off but was not sure how. Well she wanted to go back to school so I convinced her to move back with her parents 1200 miles away. I also told her it would give me time to get my life straight and decide if I wanted to stay married or stay with her. Honestly I thought the buffer would mean we would see less of each other which would eventually lead to us drifting apart and a slow non painful breakup.Well her and her mom got in a huge fight and her mom said she cannot live at home now. Well guess what.. She wants to move to the town I live in to some apartments a mile away from my house. Is there a way to tell her I do NOT want her that close to me without freaking her out? Honestly she is a bit of a stalker.. She has driven 300 miles just to drive by my house where she took a pic and texted it to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): You slept with her, dated her and undoubtedly told her how special she was to you, maybe even told her u loved her. All behind your wifes back and you're surprised she wants more and calling her a stalker!! You've led her on and now she pushes for more commitment you're backing off and making out like it's her fault. You're outrageous.I hope the women who are mistresses who write in to this site about advice on their affairs with married men read your posting and realise married men will say whatever u want to hear to get you into bed but are ultimately cheating selfish losers
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reader, charlieboy +, writes (13 April 2011):
charlieboy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCaringGuy.. I thought the same thing with the white rabbit.. I feel like I am just talking to her because of the old Caesar line.. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer" I am scared what she might do if I do not talk to her.I do feel what happened with her mom is true because I called her sister and her dad without her knowing and the stories matched up perfectly. Unless they are all crazy.. Could be
Anonymous711.. You are correct I do need space. The plan was space. that is now ruined
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 April 2011):
Straight up, you are beyond insane for even considering keeping contact with this woman in any way. This woman clearly has obsession with you, and is now out to wreck you. She drove 300 miles to take a picture of your house and show it to you!
You don't even really know if she and her mother did have a fight - she could be lying.
I hope you don't have a white bunny at your house!
You've got to cut contact with her, delete every text, every email - everything. Get this woman out of your life NOW! Or she will be at the door telling your wife. At least of you plan for it, you can say she's mental or something.
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reader, Anonymous711  +, writes (13 April 2011):
Tell her in the nicest way possible that she cant, this is a BAD idea. Your wife will suspect things, you need to sort your relationship out before you can make decisions, you need to have some space from her. Best of luck Anonymous711 :D
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