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writes: I'm a very punctual person. My boyfriend isn't. He sleeps in, he's late, etc etc. So when he doesn't reply to my requests to hang out, or doesn't keep his word about helping me out with math homework, I get very stressed out, only to find out that he's been "resting" or playing video games for the last hour without replying to me. It drives me up the wall. I don't know what to do. I can't just calm down, because then I'll be like him, careless. For instance, yesterday he couldn't hang out but promised to hang out today and help me out with something that he understands and I don't, math.Well, now he's just talking to me very casually and relaxed, like he forgot his promise, hinting at me staying at home and studying on my own..He always does this, never considers my feelings and often backs out when he feels like it.I can't calm down, my face gets red, I feel the blood vessels dilate, and my cheeks are pounding right now because I'm extremely irritated. How can one be so nonchalant about his life?
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Ok so know I now why he's ignoring you.
I was just OFFERING advice won't do that again.
Best of luck with you attitude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionVery unhelpful advice. He OFFERED to help me. Brush up on your reading skills. 3
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reader, cupidus +, writes (14 April 2011):
Is he your math tutor or your BF?
Get a tutor and treat your BF like a BF.
No wonder he's avoiding you, he's feeling freaked out too!
If he was to ask a question here it would be:
Am I just being used by my GF?
She only wants to see me because I'm good in math.
Always gives me shit for doing the things I like to do.
Always telling me I'm late, this and that. I don't think she likes me much, I guess I should move on because she's driving me nuts trying to get what she wants and making me have to change myself.
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