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writes: I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ago. At a girls night I confessed to having a complete thing for him. So anyway someone leaked it to his face and when I was confronted about by other people I denied it. I wish I hadn't but I did. So after that things have been pretty frosty and we barely speak. I still really like him and recently I think he might like me. When we were put on a project together he said it would be great to spend time working together. Another time his friend asked if our parents being close worked to his advantage. Does this mean he likes me or am I just jumping to conclusions, in unsure after everything that I've done. If he does like me what should I do please help ???? Reply to this Question
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Hiya,
My feeling here is the answer is yes he does, not because of the parent thing but more because of him a) wanting to spend time with you and b), more importantly the frosty response when you denied liking him. B is more important because I would say this, if you didn't like somebody in return his reaction doesn't make sense. It wouldn't matter and he wouldn't have gone all frosty but the fact he did showed he felt rejected by you and that mattered enough to hurt. I know that was unintentional but that's what im getting from this. Your confusing each other but the time has to come when one of you takes the initiative, speaks out and takes the risk.
I think that should be you (mainly because you asked the question lol). I know its going to be scary and what your really looking for is reassurance you wont be hurt/rejected. Nobody here can give that 100% but i'll give you 80/90% and those are well worth the chance for what you could gain arent they?
Hope it goes well and let us know how it goes!
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