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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks now. we have been talking for over a year though. pretty much everyday... recently, she totally changed. she doesn't talk to me anymore.... she treats me like shit... won't show public displays of affection... everything that could go wrong is going wrong... it just happened randomly. on Friday, we were all happy. we jipped 3rd hour to hang out. went to the mall, then watched movies. everything normal. all happy. then i texted her good night, no reply. next day, no reply to any calls or text. same with Sunday, then Monday, then Tuesday. shshe finally talks today, and it's about prom. how she would rather spend dinner prom night with her friends than me. i understand that, but now I have to let them down. I don' know what to do. im trying as hard as I can to not be clingy. barely texting her(not like she'd reply or anything), giving her room. everything....What do I do?I don't know what to do we planned out everything together. i even have 3 other couples coming..
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 April 2011):
22-25 and you're able to attend her prom?? When I as in high school the cut off age was 20 and they had to be a high school graduate.
This is HER prom, so therefore she should spend it however she likes. You really don't have a choice in the matter seeing as you are her guest. If she doesn't want you to go then there's nothing you can do. Hopefully, you can get your $ back in the tuxedo rental, cancel the flowers and limo, etc. You're also going to have to tell these other couples what's going on so they can figure out how they're going to prom now.
As far as your relationship goes, you can't think of ANYTHING you have done to her lately??? If you haven't done anything wrong, then this relationship has gone stalemate for her and she's ready to check out of it.
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