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female
age
30-35,
*ovely_menaime
writes:hello .. ok i've been in a long distance relationship .. i'm from tunisia and he's from uk .. it was good most of the time. he was planning to visit me on dec but we broke up before that .. so we haven't met ! after new year we talked and we were back .. but i was feeling a little insecure and i felt like he's not interested in me .. he broke up with me after that .. i keep him as a friend on facebook .. he wants to be friends with me .. we talked about it a week ago .. i said i'm leaving facebook and that we can't be friends he said he wants us to remain friends and that he only broke up with me because he couldn't cope with the distance .. and that it almost killed him wanting to be with me but not being able to .. i'm planning to study in uk .. when i told him that he said we should go out together and that he wants to marry me .. he said he still loves me and misses me alot but he's being distant .. when i added boys on facebook he added girls .. trying to make me jealous .. i don't understand ..but he doesn't want me to leave facebook and wants to keep in touch with me .. he messages me every now and then .. i don't know what to do ..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Why dont you just wait until you go to the united kingdom to study and see how you both get on face to face. He says he wants to marry you yet he has never met you and he is being distant. You both need to spend quality time together to get to know each other before even thinking about marriage. That is crazy. If you are going to study in the UK and you are interested in this boy and want to spend time with him well then I dont see any harm in staying on facebook to keep in contact with him and then see what happens when you land in the country. But the whole because you add boys he adds girls just sounds really childish behaviour to me.
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