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I'm scared of getting hurt by my LDR girlfriend...

Tagged as: Long distance, The ex-factor, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (13 April 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

ok this is in regards to long distance love/romace/relationship

What im about to say may sound crazy but il make it short, bout a year ago i met a girl online we stayd contact for ever a year and fell in love however i pushed her way because i was afraid of gettin heart broken, so we drifted off for about 3 months even tho we txt every now and then but now im back with my ex got back with her when me and this girl drifted but the thing is i dont want to be with my ex i want to be with my long distance girl accept only reason i dont meet up with her is because i get cold feet and i am that scared fo commiting to her and gettin haert broken lol is that crazy or what? i am hurting everday and i miss her and she stil feels the same about me the first day she met me she keeps telling me every week or so she would txt me wanting to meet up n everyting, ahhh what do i do how do i overcome this fear its making me loose out on love of my life, i rememnber she told me once she would always love me forever, but for some f****ed up reaason i cant bring me self to go see her, how do i overcome this has anyone else beenthrough this? its like im putting up these walls, only reason im with my ex is because she lives close and is there for me, unlike this long distance issue!!! anyone with some expertise if they can help that would be appreicitave, thanks

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