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writes:Hello, I'm 16 and I masturbate every night. I was wondering if this is common or should I get some help? Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Don't be ridiculous. When I was 16 I routinely masturbated 3 to 5 times a day and there was absolutely nothing wrong with me then, nor is there now. I was also having sex at that age (though not as often as I wanted, obviously) and am a perfectly normal married man with a beautiful wife and lovely daughter today. I still masturbate, though an awful lot less than I did when I was in my teens.
Wank away.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Well, if you get help then it is no longer called masturbation... we call that sex :)
Nah, most guys do. So do most girls but they lie about it.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (13 April 2011):
Yes, you should definitely get help, from a girl your own age. It's more fun that way.
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reader, macdubh712  +, writes (13 April 2011):
Yeah dude, everyone on here is right. Nothing wrong with slappin' the salami; 99.9% of all males masturbate, the other .1% lie about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Thats common pal. Once a day is healthy just dont get addicted to it or youll, like Cindy said, become used to only a certain kind of stimulation and youll have problems in the bed with a girl. Use a nice lotion or KY lol but stay away from soaps :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Fairly common and innocuous, don't worry.
Although, you may want to slow down a little if you can- the risk is that if you go on like this a long time, you risk to "train " yourself to respond only to this specific kind of stimulation and you'll get let sensation from intercourse.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Unless it hurts and you feel like you can't stop or take a day off, then it's no problem. What about you take a day off to see the difference? When you take a day off from it, if you feel an urge to do it, a need to do it, you might have gotten yourself into a habit and doing it just out of habit or compulsory behaviour. You always want to avoid compulsory behaviour because it traps you down and isn't healthy. But if going a day without masturbating works fine, and you experience no problem, then there isn't a problem with continuing to masturbate either.
If you get sore you just need to take a break and not do it for a few days.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Fairly common but don't do it unless you're actually sexually aroused.
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (13 April 2011):
Well, as long as you're not peeking at or stealing someone's lingerie while doing it night after night, that's no biggie. Hormones tend to burst up around that age. Once you're a bit older, that wanting would somehow subside.
Still, enjoy the moment. ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): No you don't need to get help, anywhere from once to 3 times a day is normal. I used to go 3 or more times a day when I was single. Masturbation is very healthy for us guys as long as it's not done too much.
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