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Hurt from the past still haunts my relationship. He won't talk about it.

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Question - (13 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2011)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am so confused with the guy i have been with for 5 years, i love him so much. Part of me wants to let him go so i can be happy, i haven't been happy for awhile now from the way he treated me.

3 years ago he used to run around on me with all these other girls while i was pregnant. He's barely seen me at all yet he can go see these other girls. It still hurts to this day what he did to me I try to get over it but i can't. The feeling of being rejected, hurt,used and being lonely. I wanted to talk to him about it how he made me feel he just gets mad saying it was along time ago n shakes it off.

how can i let all this go ???

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2011):

You need to get rid of him. Whilst I know you're hurting, you can't realistically expect him to continually expect him to be answering questions 3 years after - that needed to be dealt with at the time. The time has come to accept that your relationship has never worked and never will, and leave him. He's no good anyway.

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