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writes:hi;i am 25 and dating a guy from past 1 yr , he is a diabetic type-1 from his childhood and fully insulin dependent twice a day. i want to marry him but my parents are refusing because of his diabetis and also because of intercaste marriage as we are of different caste. i love him and i don't want to lose him. what should i do?nowadays my parents are forcing me to marry someone else, always giving negative thoughts about diabetis.how to convince my parents?should i runaway from home and get marry to him? if i will do such,it will affect there image in society.i don't want to marry against my parents.i want there blessings too.what to do?????? please suggest.... Reply to this Question
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reader, macdubh712  +, writes (13 April 2011):
You know in many cultures where there are/were forced marriages, running away to get married and consumating that marriage before the famiy found out has always been a choice. However, Honeygirl is right; whatever you decide there will be consequences. I personally feel that if you really love this man and are truly willing to do anything for him then running away to get married might be your option. Just be prepared for the storms that will follow but if you do this stand your ground.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 I can understand about your parents not wanting you to marry a man of another caste, but it is unfair to blame him for his diabetes, he did not do anything to cause himself to get diabetes. Diabetes is not curable, but it is treatable.I cannot tell you what to do, the final choice will be yours. However whichever choice you make there will be consequences, and before you do anything, think carefully.
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