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writes:When a guy stops talking to you, is that a bad sign? I've been seeing this guy and i thought things were going pretty good. Suddenly he didn't talk to me for a few days. I just shot him a quick text, he responded, but it wasn't really anything, just like "Hey"I think I'm reading too much into this. I really like him, so I'm trying to keep my cool, but its been a few days since he talked to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo the thing with this guy is, we've been talking and he always talks about getting together. But he works a lot and I'm a full-time student & i'm working & involved in extra-curricular activities. But he has time to go to concerts with friends and hang out with them. Last week he said he really wanted to hang out and when would be a good time. I said when he made time and that I couldn't last weekend. So he said OK well i'll make time i really want to hang out and said maybe this coming weekend.
I just feel like things aren't going anywhere but i really like him a lot and want things to go somewhere.
Also I don't ask people out. They ask me out. I just show that I'm interested.
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reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx  +, writes (13 April 2011):
The thing is, you may be thinking that things have been going well... When he in fact may be thinking the opposite.
I have been in your situation and i decide if a guy isn't making the effort then why should I!? So i just move on, which is hard to do when you really like them i know. But believe me if you feel it is one sided and your always texting them first and arranging days. Then it isn't going to go anywhere!
When i was trying to move on, i deleted their number i still had their texts, but it was strange because by deleting their number in some very strange way helped me get over them. I guess there was no temptation to text him. It will take a few days because you do really like them so you can't forget them that easily, but try this method because it really does work if your persistent!
Or if you can't do that and you really want to talk to him.. then just text him and ask if he's around to meet up? Then see what his response is. If he asks when or sounds keen, then he is interested in seeing you again. However, if he says something stupid along the lines of he doesn't know when he will be avaliable. Then i'm sorry but he is trying to hint that he isn't interested.
Texts can always be misconstrued, but if a guy isn't interested you can always read it straight off!! If this is the case it's better just to forget him because you will just appear desperate or clingy and that is a big turn off!
Good luck sweetheart (: I hope things do work out!
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