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26-29,
*julia*
writes:Hi everyone, I am 13 years old. My best friend has her first boyfriend and I am really happy for her, but she doesn't stop talking about him!!! He is in like every conversation we have. I get that she is happy and everything but it makes me feel bad because I don't have a boyfriend. My other friend is just like me and she feels the same way. I have enough stress in my life and then I have to be put down by her and she doesn't even know she is doing it!!! Please, I need help on how to get over all of her conversations about exactly what happened when the had their first kiss. How can I get over this???
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): I know exactly how you feel as I've been through it all when I was your age.I used to have a best friend (we still are) but at that age we used to do everything together, school, go out, sleepovers, etc.. we were never apart. As soon as she liked a boy, that was it. That's ALL I'd hear from her and it use to drive me crazy. I remember feeling happy for her when she had a boyfriend too, UNTIL she'd obsess over them then it made me feel horrible and the feeling like I wanted a boyfriend too.Well anyway, I decided one day (when we got to 15) to tell her about this. When she'd say something about him I'd laugh and be like 'Oh god, is there anything else to talk about, he's all you ever speak about nowa days!' She then realised after that and answered me with 'I know, I'm sorry, but you know how I feel about him. I'll try not to'. And she never did it as much after that.As we both grew older and BOTH had boyfriends together it wasn't so bad as we could speak about them together and all go out as a 4 together.I know these things seem like the world at your age but they really aren't. Just tell her about it, she'll understand!
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