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writes:Well here's the dilemma, im a bi male who has never been with a guy before... to make a long story short I have a straight guy friend that I think wants me but claims to be straight. When we are together its like we are a couple or something, he treats me like his gf but i dont know why. If we go out to bars he buys all my drinks and he tries to get me drunk. Also you can tell a person by their eyes and the way he stares at me is like I want you right now (even girls told me he has that look in his eye). My question is tho, he claims he likes women and he is always talking about how he hates gay guys and what not. He recently asked me to move in with him but I dont wanna do that cuz if I do I think I might end up falling for him. So what do you think about this situation?
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (20 September 2010):
Sounds like HE might be a little bi-courious himself... and he likes you.
If you truly wanna find out how he feels about you... let him get you a little drunk... and then put the moves on him. If he shys away or is repulsed by it or rejects your adbances... then you know he just likes you as a friend.
On the other hand if he 'likes' you or is 'more interested' than just friendship... he'll let your advances continue and you'll probably get a little action out of it (if only just kissing). The one problem that you have with this is that of what happens the next morning.
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