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writes:About 5 weeks ago I received a message from my partners saying that he had to deal with major issues in his life and since then I barely hear from him. He says he needs his space to sort these things out. He tells me that the relationship is not over but at the same time he does not communicate with me at all anymore; he does not reply to my text or email messages. When I phone I speak to his voicemai and he does not arrange times when we could meet up or even tells me that he loves me.I don't want to give up on him, we have been in what I presumed a nice relationship over the last 3 years but it this just his way of tellimg me that he has finished with me?
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reader, jimrich  +, writes (20 September 2010):
What do you want? Are you just his little helpless toy? It's your life so why not go for what you want and live your life as you please. Right now all you have written REEKS of Codependency - google it.
If someone treated me like that....
I'D BE GONE!
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reader, Red591 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 "issues" usually means another girl. I have recently been cheated on for the first time and it hurt so Im not speaking from a pedestool. He is a coward and I bet he is trying on other women but keeping you on the shelf in case the grass is not greener on the other side. Send him a message that you met someone (whether you have or not) and you wish him luck on him finding himself or whatever crap he told you. I bet he tries to talk to you after that message and if he does not then good riddance to a another looser. and if he does try to talk to you but still keeps distance than it still proves my original theory. Go out, party, meet new people, and soon you will never understand why he was worth the trouble. ALso someone answere my question lol
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reader, shania +, writes (19 September 2010):
 What issues has he got? You have been with him for 3 whole years but doesn't have the decency to tell you whats wrong? I find that rather bizarre! 5 weeks is quite a while and he should of at least let you know where you stand, but instead he is dangling you on a piece of string.If i was you i would stop all contact, no emails, phone calls,texts etc. He has vanished into thin air..i suggest you do the same because in my opinion he has treated you rather shabbily, by shutting you out.Do you really want a fella like that who gives you flimsy excuses or reasons on why he cant see you? I think you are better then that, dont you?
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