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writes:I have been with my Girlfriend Nancy for over a year.She wanted a deep relationship and pure love. Things were going fine, with no problems.I have asked her to go out for a trip outside of hometown and that I will pay for all the expenses, and she came to me that she cannot go because "how can I tell my mother and she will not let me go" So I said ok. Now Valentine day comes up. Two weeks before I mentioned what would you like for this day, Her answer "I do not believe much in this. Now 1 week before she tells me that she wants to go Miami to do shopping and that she is going with her sister as a Nanny to look after the children. So innocently I said ok you are going to Miami to do shopping, it is fine. She even asked if I can give her money to take along to buy some clothes.She returns from Miami everything is nice and dandy. She had problems with her computer so she gives it to me to fix it.Thinking that I would only fix it and that is it. Much to my surprise I find in the computer pictures of her ex boyfriend Joe in which she was making out under a tree.I thought this was happening in Miami. I confronted her with it, she cried and said that it was her ex boyfriend and it was before the time we were together and she has no relationship with him. I believed her. Months later she is posting some pictures of the places she went to on facebook , and this made a light go on. My laptop screen broke and I asked if I can use hers.She let me use it So I snooped and found out that there were pictures on the harddisk in Miami and she went to Miami with the ex boyfriend and also found pictures in which she was having a good time in Valentine's day and also found out that she went to Palmbeach and stayed in a hotel on the 13th of fecruary and checked out on the 14th. She claims she was calling me and that the phone was ringing of the hook. I answered that phone call that day and nobody was talking on the other line. And the telephone number she called me from the Miami was probably from a cellphone that she borrowed to call and say that she was ok. I saved the number and I called up this morning only to find out that number belonged to a waiter who works in a restaurant.No wonder when I was calling her in the wee hours, it was never answered.I have found these pictures what should I do, should I confront her and say It is over or should I give her a chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Don't give her another chance... unless she is the ONE... i mean... can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the stars, over the fence, world series kinda love... cuz it's so not worth it... the truth is... you will move on... you will find someone better... cuz once a cheat... almost always a cheat... i know from personal experience... i made the mistake of marrying the a-hole... he just can't seem to be faithful... if you can live without her... do it... there are a thousand more girls out there... that won't cheat on you... you are worth more than that... and don't worry... you will find some one else... you'll see
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 September 2010):
Whilst I don't always agree with snooping, it sadly sometimes gets results. And the truth is, she's been at it with her ex and lied to you all the way through.
I wouldn't even consider giving her a second chance. At all. The fact is that she lied to you, big style, and you've busted her. Also, since she was with her ex, it's safe to assume she hasn't got over him and you're second best. That's not good enough. And if nothing else, the trust is now gone.
Trust me, dump her and move on.
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