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writes:im sorry for the bad grammar but im kind of in a hurry to get this posted and im sorry its long but its kind of a story and if u do end up reading all of it and try to help me i would really appreciate iti really need some advice because im struggling alot with this problem. Right now im 18 and im going to a community college near where i graduated highschool alot of my friends went to out of state colleges so i didnt know too many people i could hang out with but i eventually found some friends who are still rather young... actually about 16 and i started hanging out with this one girl at the beginning of summer and i got really close to her and i liked her alot but i didnt think she felt the same way about me so i just tried to be the best friend i could be. my mom would go out of town occasionally and i would throw parties at my house and bring this girl and almost everytime she ends up all over some guy in my house and i would get really sad cause i liked her and i was just allowing it to happen but anyways a couple nights ago i had another party and i had made her cry cause i was trying to get her to sit down and sober up cause she was really drunk and she told me that she didnt want to talk to me and ignored me for the rest of the night... she ended up in my brothers room and lost her virginity to a guy she had just met and that morning i drove her home cause she needed to go to the doctor and when i got back home someone told me wat had happened and i asked her about it, she told me wat happened and i was just really upset that she would tell me she didnt want to talk to me and instead went and f**ked some guy she didnt know at all... so i ended up telling her that i dont want to be her friend anymore and we arent talking... she still wants to be friends and a part of me wants to but i dont know wat i should do cause she hasnt exactly been the nicest person to me even though i do so much for her... any advice is helpful thank you
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 I think you truly are a wonderful guy to care about this particular girl so much. I had a friend once who was forever getting into trouble, and although i got into loads of trouble because of her, her parents were grateful that i stuck around and tried to keep her out of trouble, and my parents were grateful that i made sure she didn't end up getting raped or something.
If you genuinely want to be there for her then you have to let her know that you like her. You obviously don't want to see her get hurt, and i admire you for that. Be there for her as much as you can, if at the very least to make sure she doesn't get herself hurt.
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