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writes:I'm in a quandary, I have met a girl via the internet, to have a sexual relationship with her. Originally she said she was 18, it turns out she is only 16, she had sex with an older guy ( i'm 25) and older female. I have never had sex. She wants sex but i'm not sure, it right? please help?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 September 2010):
Whilst 16 is the legal age of consent in the UK, you need to be asking yourself if she's younger than that. She lied once, and will do so again. She sounds far too immature to be able to handle something like this. Remember, you don't want your name on the sex register, and you don't want to get arrested for kidnap (she is under 18, and if she runs away to see you or something, you're done). Best avoid her.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Yeh dude, this ain't right.
Virgin or not, you're better than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): I'm afraid it doesn't seem right at all to me. You should find someone your own age to have sex with not someone who's just left/still in school.I'm surprised you're a virgin knowing you're searching the internet for young women to have sex with.If you're going to search the internet for women, why not at least get to know them and have a relationship with them? Instead of just sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Let me get this right, you have never had sex, you're 25 and you're searching the internet for ' sexual relationships ' aka, casual SEX with basic strangers you know absolutely nothing about..well apart from what they tell you.So you hook up online, chat, message each other, and from I can see talk about having sex, as it appears this young female at 16, has already had SEX with a guy of 25 and a female, via the internet. And now you are looking to have sex with this young woman. You talk about sex as though it's something that is soul-less, just an act, an arrangement made through online messaging, like buying some item you may bid for on E-Bay. No wonder STD's are on the increase, and DATING where one gets to know someone, and after some time when you have both built a loving relationship, you embark on a FULL sexual relationship as well..IS DECREASING. When all this results in guys, and so it seems females sitting behind a computer screen ( Computer Crawling)the equal, to what was once known Kerb Crawling - Guys looking for sex in the real world with females offering it for a fee, doesn't seem too far removed, except you are not paying for it. Do you really want to have sex with a female who offers herself over the internet to guys or females for sex???? Wouldn't you prefer to meet a female who actually wanted a relationship and hadn't already given her body to just about anyone?My advice would be to open your mind, not just your body, to the fact that SEX and INTIMACY go hand in hand, where feelings, emotions are part of the union. I realize sex is important to you, especially as you are still a virgin, but I'm 100% SURE you would ENJOY sex, much, much, MORE if you meet a nice girl who likes you, and you end up making love, YES making love, opposed to copulating like two dogs in the street that means nothing.YES I'm being direct as I think you can do a lot better than finding females over the internet who obviously have NO integrity or any self-worth for themselves. These young women will eventually discover guys will just see them as bodies and treat them as such.Please re-think this, because you have NO idea IF she is 16 or 18, or even 14...she has already lied about her age once, but IF you do end up with this female, please take precautions as you have no idea as to her sexual history.Jilly
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (19 September 2010):
 sex is much better when your in love! and also people are not always as they seem on the internet. really think you should look for love and find someone who is a friend that you share mutual feelings. she has lied about her age what else is she lying about really makes you wonder what if shes 14 and never had sex how would you feel when your breaking the law! personally i would find someone else or at least be friends with them first get to know them in person! good luck aphex
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