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writes:Me and my boyfriend had been going out with each other for atleast 2 weeks and a half. When, he brought up the question "Should we break up?" I was shocked he would ask that. I was hurt and was about to break down in tears. He told me, he was only doing it to get the family back together. See, he is my brothers wifes brother. And this whole fight started because were dating.He promised me he'll go back out with me, and I believe him. He told me also, that his mom threatened to take me away from him, and he didn't want to lose me forever. 3 That made me happy, but at the same time, tears were coming down my face. He wants to be friends for right now, and I said thats okay. I knew he was depressed and pissed about what he did cause he looked depressed and pissed and wouldn't stop starring at me. Well, today I didn't expect to see him at all. But I did, and while we were at the same place, I noticed he was flirting with me the whole time. So, I know he still likes me, and I still like him a lot more than I can say.I want to know if, I should save myself for him, since we both like each other so much. And I also want to know if he really will ask me back out. I'm afraid, because his ex gf is trying to get him to like her again. And now that me and him aren't dating, I'm afriad she'll get to him and he wont get back together with me. The thought of this happening, makes me deppressed. I don't want to lose him to her. She was mean to him, and cheated on him. But if she succeeds in getting him to like her again, he's one of those guys who will go back out with her. I don't know if I should be worried about this or not.Please help me. Thank you.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 I do not see why you two broke up in the first place. All the emotions are there, there is still flirting, you two are practically together in all but name. If he is really willing to ask you out again he will ignore his ex's advances, he will remember why they split up in the first place.
If you see him drifting away from you, talking is always an option, does he still intend to be with you or is he honestly falling for his ex girlfriend again?
I hope that helps.
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