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*ily295
writes:Hello all, thanks in advance for reading this.Me and my boyfriend have been in this relationship for a long time and it's been great. Our sex life is full of fantasies and excitement. He is very open minded, just like me and we always try new things. Anal included, even fetishes. He discovered he likes anal about a year ago when we were talking about him giving to me...and then we discovered he would like the sensation too. Let me tell you he is very straight. As far as I know, at least.He let me penetrate him with finger, he does it to himself sometimes and he did anal on me... my main concern is, a couple of days ago I was masturbating thinking of him. And in the middle of my fantasy, I saw him with a man totally dominated behind. In my fantasy I don't know who he is, neither in real life, but I just couldn't stop thinking about this, even him sucking his dick. I liked the idea of my boyfriend (who is very dominant on me, very masculine) being dominated by a man, but WITHOUT being gay. Are you following? I wouldn't like him to be gay, of course, i want him for ME. But why do I like this so much? It's even more appealing than me penetrating him with a strap on. I want serious answers, please. Thanks!
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reader, lily295 +, writes (23 September 2010):
lily295 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK you all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): I think you like because you know he like when you do it to him, and may he won't like it to have another man do it to him (that is a different story).
i think you should try to have sex with him, while you are dominating and it will be exiting for you.
also you can try to bring the issue and see what he thinks, if he didn't like it, you can say it was just a thought and nothing serious,
good luck
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (19 September 2010):
why dont you try a strapon on him instead ?
it happens some times that men turn gay after having sex with a male
so becarefull
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): The serious answer is that the fantasy worked for you, and that's great. And that it's almost always a bad idea for things like that that flicker through your mind to go anywhere else. Keep it as a fantasy, because trying it in the RW will almost certainly be a disaster.
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