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How can I choose?

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Question - (19 September 2010) 14 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *imzyluv writes:

When two boys wish for you to be their girlfriend how does one choose?

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

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lol I'm not having sex anytime soon XD Thank you though

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (21 September 2010):

chigirl agony auntCongratulations! Take it slow and use protection!

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

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Also I asked all three "If you could have anything in the world what would it be?" boy#1 who I wants my body said "another summer vacation". boy#2 who is hard to read said "transportation powers because it would be fun". boy#3 the sweety said "you". Guys I think I found a winner!

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

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News update this just in! hard to read boy, decided he is transfering to another school. Outcast sweet boy is now in the lead.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2010):

The right person stands out. Simple as that. If you can't choose, then neither guy stands out enough.

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

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How do you figure?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2010):

Neither guy is right for you. At all.

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

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I'm the type of person thats afraid to make a choice... because I dont want to regret.. I fear life (pathetic I know)

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

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well I know I could be happy with either one, the sweeter one, who is a bit of an outcast, praises me and says cute corny things, and longs to be loved is farther away, and the more laid back one, with the never ending open mind, who sometimes makes me worry about upseting him by being worried and speaking my emotions, attends the same school... we almost dated over the summer but he was annoyed with me until we met again at the start of the school year where he remembered how much he like being with me and revieled he thinks im the one... If I couldnt see myself dating them I would feel it, there are certain guys that I can just tell would most likely drive me insane... so I only fully consider those who have proven to be a suitable significant other. The problem is I have never had two (really its three, but I kinda semi weeded one out, because he seemed more interested in my body and sexual activities than my heart) suitables ask for the chance of winning my heart at the same time...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2010):

Neither. If you can't choose, neither guy is right for you.

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (19 September 2010):

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neither know one another, but they both know of the other's existance and intrest in me

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (19 September 2010):

chigirl agony auntChoose neither. Just because they want you doesn't mean you have to choose either or. Maybe you like someone else? Or maybe you aren't really into any of these guys? Do you like them back, and do you like one more than the other? Who do you feel you are more compatible with?

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A female reader, Mimzyluv United States +, writes (19 September 2010):

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well they know each other exists and are interested in me (im honest), but they dont know each other personally.

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (19 September 2010):

misfitschik66 agony aunteither go with your guy on which one you like more or choose neither seeing that they may start to fight

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