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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my hubby dnt have the best marriage. I have been married for at least 7 yrs. I decided to find a friend that was much older b/c I thought that wld make my days easier. I thought if he was at least 30 yrs older (which he is), I wld b ok. My friend is just a friend. We have done sexual things with each other such as phone sex, masturbation....sexting but never actually having sex. It was exciting at first but then things started going south. I tried 2 break it off but he won't go away. He conts to text, calls, and comes up 2 my job. I have cursed at him, called him Names.....just being really nasty. I just found out he is a important public figure on my job (its a wonder I still have my job). I didn't even know him like I thought. I dnt know anything abt him. He just keeps calling me like I haven't said a wrong word 2 him. Since I found out hIs status, I started accepting calls. I'm not gonna lie, I need my job. I feel trapped and ashamed. I Have sent dirty pics of me 2 him and I'm n a mess. I do everything he says now cause I'm scared. He has never ever threaten me or my job, but he's got me by a thread. What shld I do so my hubby won't find out and I keep my job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): You should tell your husband, you have to tell him what you done,if he loves you, he will take the time to understand, don't lie to your husband anymore, that's the quickest way to lose him.
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