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writes:MOD NOTE: OP's own title.Hi I've got a not really a problem but just a spot of bother on my mind the thing is I've started college for my second year and over the summer I had these developing feelings for a girl and as soon as I accepted them I told her but this isn't the problem I met these two other girls at the college I've known them for 4 days and when they go out they ask me if I want to go with them and I do, they're really good fun but the thing is when I'm with them and when I get home, I sit and I wish I was with the girl I have feelings for. I felt I was neglecting her and when I told her this she said that I wasn't neglecting her but I havnt told her about the two girls that I go out with yet, although she does know of them. I'm just not sure who to talk to about this whether it's the two girls I go out with or the girl I have feelings for. I hope the reader can point me in the right direction and possibly provide an outside opinion on this. It would be much appreciated thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think the girl I have feelings for would like these to girls very much not because of them as people but there lifestyle is let's just say "questionable" and she's a very busy girl as she has college aswell but a much tougher course than mine. And I also have a tough time sayin no to friends when they ask I can't say no but it's no big deal
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (19 September 2010):
 Can you not invite the girl you have feelings for to go out with you and the two others girls aswell? Or maybe when the two girls ask you to go out again, just say 'thanks, but i've already got plans' and spend some time with the girl you have feelings for.
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