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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 weeks and I really do love him and he loves me too and he tells me all the time. We are both virgins and havent gone very far and I want to be able to please him sexually so we talked about me giving him a handjob and i feel like i want to but its like i have a mental block and physicaly cant even go below his belt... Any help or advice would be really appreciated?? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your help and your advice is really appreciated
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 There was a time when I was a little freaked out by the thought myself. Once I brought myself to apply my hands (among other things) to a penis I found I pretty much couldn't get enough.
Take the plunge. You won't know until you do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): You've been to the beach right? You've walked over to the ocean and dipped your toe in only to find the water was really cold but you really want to go for a swim, what do you do? Yeah you just run in because you know once you do and you get over the initial shock of cold the water becomes lovely and you get to have a nice swim.
The same applies here. Don't think just do it, don't let your mind build it up into something it isn't. It's just a penis.
Next time you are alone together ask him to take it out of his pants and show it to you. Ask him to play with it a little to see what he does with it, if you feel comfortable enough then touch it or hold it. While I said jump in I mean mentally. Take your time getting to know it if you're still a bit nervous about playing with it. The more you see and feel it the easier it will get and don't worry about him he'll gladly take it out and show it off.
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