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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:After months of chatting online expressing our sexual chemistry with each other, this guy and I met up. Our desires for each other were very strong but I didn't let anything happen. He didn't force it either which I'm glad because I don't know how much resisting I could've put forth. Now it's been months and we don't talk/chat as frequently but when we do there's still that desire for each other. I really would like to be with him and even though he told me he'd like to develop a relationship I'm feeling like it's not with me. We haven't really had conversations about it to say for sure but some things are missing like really getting to really know me, etc so I can conclude that. Also, I can't tell if he thinks my interest is only sexual and so he just keeps it sexual or truly that's all he wants himself. Right now I figure it's just sex he wants from me but again that's all that's come from me as well. The thing is, I'm very attracted to him in that way but I don't want it to be just that. I want to get to know him better all the way around. He did say it's hard to develop and maintain relationships because he travels a lot so that says sex only to me. Can this sexual energy grow to something more? Chances are is it just sex for him and I should keep my distance since I can't let it be just about sex even though that's what I want too? Should I be direct and tell him I am sexually attracted to him but I'd like to see where things can go with us? Should I just leave it alone? Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 If i was emailing him i would of died of boredom by now...He is dithering about, he probably has a few women on the go and getting his sex that way...or he's married with 5 kids.What puzzles me is he hasn't exactly being jumping on your bones...no dates...just a big fat zero.Which proves to me that he has something to hide.Personally, i think you are wasting your time with him....he hasn't made any effort to meet up with you..the emails have become scarce...id throw the towel in and find someone else.
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