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writes:hey guys, im 15 years old and VERY confused.There's this guy, lets call him bob. He's the kind of guy who likes to always have a girl there to hug and kiss, he dates, but he usually just likes to go around and make out with girls. well i text him sometimes and sometimes he texts me but last night we were at a dance and he never danced with anyone but me and one other girl, when he grinded with me, we grinded and then all of a sudden he takes me by the hand, doesnt say anything and takes me to the wall where we grind some more, when we were done, he gave me a hug, then about half an hour later I saw him grinding another girl... I was really upset, then a while after that, he came and grabbed me and started grinding me on the wall, then when we were done, we stood there hugging, then he kissed me on the cheek and we stood there holding hands and hugging. I was happy, but an hour after that we were grinding again and that girl he grinded with before came up to him while he was griding me and was like, fml and gave him a kiss on the cheek. I was like really bob ? hes likes sorrrry, then she left the dance and me and bob, danced and hugged, so im very confused because i really liked him to begin with and that made me like him more, but I don't know if it meant as much as it did to him as it did to me. I was upset all night about that. Was he just having fun or does he have SOME feelings for me? How can I make him want me? because I want him! like really bad! I just need some advice... PLEASE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Dont fall for this guy as he is probably attracted to you and thinks your `hot` but guys who like you will try and make some effort other than grinding, dont take it to heart but most guys are like that, and a yve said he likes that sort of thing.If you still are really confused, talk to him about it,its the only other thing
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reader, Butterfly1992  +, writes (19 September 2010):
Sounds like he has feelings for you, but hes not a one woman man. he sounds like a player. i can tell u this tho. move on. He's not worth getting hurt over. dont wait around for him. :/ You can do better.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 He's got 'PLAYA' written all over him!!!! 2 words hun....STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): From what you describe, Bob is just playing the field. He's having fun dancing with and cuddling with different girls and he doesn't keep it a secret. If he were serious about you he would not act like that and instead focus all of his attention on you. So, I think even though you seriously like him, you can forget about having him as a steady boyfriend. You probably can not do anything to 'make' him like you - the best thing is always to be yourself. Kudos to Bob for being up front and open about what he is doing, there are plenty of guys who will act like they are interested in 'only' you and then come on to other girls when you are not around.
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