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female
age
30-35,
*tsmith
writes: So I'm a senior and I met this new guy on the first day of school. We've been flirting back and worth now for two weeks and I really like him. I only get to see him 5 minutes a day except wednesday because we are in a voulenteer class and our locations are different. I want to become friends and not just the girl he talks to while waiting for the bus. I'm not sure how to approach this because he is in a long distance relationship with another girl. Again I just want us to become friends. Even though I have fallen for him I'm not the type to be the other women. How do I go about to bring our relationship to the next level without looking like a fool or making a mistake?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Hi there!
If you have fallen for him and you know he's in a relationship with another woman, even if its long distance, I think it might be a good idea to keep your distance ( ie phone call once in awhile, a email from time to time, etc). You already have the emotions for him and if you get involved, even if he just becomes your friend, that could very easily lead into something else and possibly create adversity towards his current relationship. Id keep things at the level youre at. Best to you :)
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