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writes:He says he loves me and like 4 other girls.I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back.I'm 15 he is 17..Is he just confused?..If i date him will the stuff with the other girls stop?..Do i just forget him all together cause his a player?.I have no clue what to do.
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reader, soon567  +, writes (24 October 2010):
No he's not confused at all. I think he likes the attention that he's receiving or think he getting. No he's not a player. If he was a player he would be dating all 5 of you and defiantly you wouldn't know it.
Here your guy is a virgin regardless of what that mouth of his says and don't have a clue. No he maybe worth getting to know and you need to turn his head towards you. I think he's confused about you but you need to make it clear what you will tolerate and what you will. Take it from a male here. We need to be told exactly and no maybe, perhaps, or you think those are all yeses to us.
"I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back." This is infatuation-you like him when he arounds you but when he goes so does the feelings. That means your feeling is true and no its not a crush either. You're mostly physically attracted to him but not emotionally. You need to be totally into anyone your in love with and neither one of you are. To solve this you either get to know each other or make sure each of you know this will not go pass friendship. You choose.
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reader, marymomnwife +, writes (24 October 2010):
girl he is a player. he says he loves you? sounds like he is too immature to know how to be in a relationship. maybe you should try to find someone who wants to date just one girl at a time after all you dont want to end up on maury with a headline that reads my boyfriend slept with my bestfriend and got her pregnant!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 October 2010):
 You said it yourself, he's a player. He says he "loves" you but also likes 4 other girls. Him liking the other girls won't stop. This guy can't be tied down to just one girl, he has to have many. So no, you will not get the monogamy you want from him. Leave this guy alone, he will only bring you pain and heartache.
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