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writes:Earlier this year I split with my husband after 10 years, 8 of which were not very good, he was shut down. I tried everything and then decided it best I leave him to himself. So, I left town and went back to my hometown. Within two months saw a guy I had a crush on nearly 20 years ago. I had such a crush on this man for so long but he always had a girlfriend or I was with someone. Anyway, we accidently catch up and then my head is in such a mess I go to couselling. The counsellor tells me that he is an illusion and that I am just dealing with my ex. Fair enough. But six months later we catch up again(again accidently), and this time we play guitar together and sing. In harmony. After this occasion I am so torn up for weeks. It's like all my emotions are bubbling to the surface but I can't afford for them to come up yet. So I ask him if he wants to play guitar again, he said not for some time as he has lots of study to do. but he looks me in the eye and tells me he will see me again. He knows I have recently split form my husband. That's okay with me, as I don't want to date anyone until divorced finished next July. But my heart is in agony!Forgot to say this, but before I even spent time with him and as soon as I came back to my hometown, three different people told me I was going to be with this man.I am crying so much. I would like to fall for him (actually I think I have already), but I am scared I am making this whole thing up in my head.WHAT DO I DO?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you so much for your answers. I feel like I am going mad half the time. I get all excited and emotional thinking about this man. If it is real then it is worth waiting for.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (24 October 2010):
 You haven't made it all up. It's simple, you and he have an attraction and it's simply developing. You see, that's the best thing about love. The anticipation and the romance that builds up to the climax. Although the climax may take a lifetime. Like a story as life is ... Your story. Maybe you are ment to be but in its own time.
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