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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last month me and my now ex boyfriend broke up i ended it. I dont know why i did because i really love him but he was selfish and i always came last, i think i ended it for a cry for help for him to come up and show me he loves me and he cant live without me (we had a long distance relationship 100 miles) but he never came he said its down to me to come and win him back but i wont do that because i was always the one running up there when we had arguments. we were together 8 months and alot happened in that time, he was prepared to move here to be with me but it fell through because we couldnt afford it. ever since then its gone preety pear shaped. sometimes we didnt see eachother for 2 weeks at a time and it drove me bloody mad. He said he was devastated when we broke up and he wouldnt talk to me but now we are texting 100 plus times a day but he is adamant i should go up there but i WONT because its his turn to show me he loves me and im worth it. he had made me feel cheap and worthless i lost my virginity to him he has stopped texting me now and from his facebook its obvious he is getting on with his life and im heartbroken left on my own is it that he has moved on did he never care? i dont know where i stand and im going insane please someone give me a straight answer
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reader, candyspice  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 sometimes we know the anwer to a question but we want someone else to tell us!. It is very simple, if he truly loved you, he will prove it to you through his actions. If he has moved on.., pls don't waste too much time thinking about whether he loved you or not because you can never know that. Don't do what we females always do; feeling bad about ourselves.
Try and concentrate your efforts on other stuffs! and good things comes to those who wait.
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