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*rincessJaye14
writes: hey everyone!! alright, so i am a freshman in high school, and i'm having a bit of an issue with guys. I'm in marching band, and i have a huge crush on at least 10 upper-classman guys. The problem is that i tend to act obnoxious around them and I know that boys hate that. I've been working on acting cool and calm, and they seem to want to talk to me more. Now the problem is turning red and sweating when i talk to them. How can i stop it? And why do i have soooo many crushes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): Im a freshmen, too, and I know what it's like to have more than one crush. For me it's really confusing in some ways because they can be complete opposites. At the beginning of the year I noticed a lot of cute guys, but now I only actually like 2, after I got to know them.
I have always had trouble talking to guys, but when I started HS I just decided to talk to them like they were my friends that are girls. And be yourself. (i know that's what everyone says, but it's very true) Start up a casuall conversation with one of them like it could be a conversation with anyone. Since your in band maybe talk about something related to that, and just go on from there.
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