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writes:i am 4~5 yrs youngr thn my bf and i had a feeling that he likes my older sister my sis is 2yrs youngr than him and they are both in d sme grade.. it is my 1st time hving a bf ,i dnt really know hw rlationships work and i realize i get jealous easily.. especialy with my oldr sister.. i knw tht he hd lykd my sister before me bck then whn she dont hv a bf yet ... and i just felt that he's just using me to get my sis.. he alwys look for her when i am with him even in emails, .. it kept bugging me
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reader, soon567  +, writes (24 October 2010):
Don't worry about your spelling I see you're leaving out you vowels on purpose. You took me back to the very first girl I like/love at the age of 13 and now 30 years later my heart thumps when I see her name. I am sorry but that could be very well true. She rejected me so the next best thing was her little sister, but it couldn't last because my heart was with her older sister. I apologized to her but the damage was already done.
You can try to hold on but I accidentally call her (her sister name) I saw the hurt. This may hurt you as well. I or no other boy would be longing for your sister if we where into you. You have a choice to either back away and let him go after her or keep hanginng on to a boy that wants her.
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 It does sounds as though you're being used to get to her, I'm afraid. And how is he in the same grade if he's two years older than your sister? A high-school grade-dropper is rarely good boyfriend material.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 October 2010):
 If he's 4-5 years older than you, and is always concerned about your sister, then he's just using you to get to your sister. He wants a girl who is more his age and that can spell. Dump this guy before he hurts your feelings.
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