A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock market, work and the new house we moved in. I asked him if he loves me he said yes but don't really show it. I feel ignored. He texts a ton and when I ask him who is he texting he always says from work. When I check his cell all texts are deleted so the emails. Why does he delete everything? He said because he doesn't want to have alot of texts on the cell neither accumulation of emails. Strange! Where he works there are alot of girls and I asked him if he is in touch with someone there besides work he said no but I saw texts from him to a girl from work in his other cell where he keeps history about texts. Nothing serious but it wasn't about work. He basically said "I'm glad about it. I will stop by after I get all settled" it doesn't say to where or nothing else. This girl emailed him before saying: "I'm bummed I won't be there the time you will. I'm out of town. Perhaps I can arrange a cab for old times sake" he responded: "I can't believe u won't be there but u will see much more about me down the road" what does that suppose to mean? should I worry about that? I asked him about email and he first, got mad saying the email was nothing and about the cab she was joking. I don't believe it. I think she was flirting with him and he was flirting back. He thinks she is cute because I asked him that. He gets mad very easily and I try not to ask him my concerns about the amount of texts he send. I know not all text are from work but how can I know if he keeps deleting everything? Is that a sign that he is up to something? Should I tell him how I feel? When I told him once we ended up fighting. Thank you very much. -confused :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): I'm sorry to say this, but it is most likely he is cheating on you.
You don't deserve this. You deserve someone who has room in his heart only
for you. It's easy for me to sit here behind the computer and say "leave him", but you really have to stop and think whether or not this is going to be the best for you in the long run? You're only going to get more hurt, and when you question him, he'll probably just make up excuses like "you're being paranoid".
Again I say it, you deserve the best. Not some guy who behaves like this.
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female
reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (24 October 2010):
 You already know what it is!!! You know when he 'delete those DAMN text messages that THEY'RE NOT business!!! BUSINESS don't "WORK" like that!!!! *In Donald Trump voice* LMAO!!!!
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