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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I met this really great guy online. we have been dating for three months now. i am eight months older than him. i am 15 and he is 14 at the moment. i love him and we want to meet face to face when i turn 16 but we fight so much i am scared of meeting him and falling even more in love with him then getting my heart broke. we are both going through a very hard time right now because i lost my grandma just last night and he lost his cousin a few days ago and we cant stop fighting. if it is like this through texting and phone calls will it be worse after we meet? i dont know what to do. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): well go for love. he'll change soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): He is not the right guy for you... If you are already arguing it will only get worse with meeting him. Do yourself a favor and end it before it begins...
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Call me old fashioned, but there are so many red flags and warning bells in what you have just said...
Firstly, you have been "dating" for three months, but have never met him? How does that work exactly? To date, you have to go out, do things together, laugh, have fun.
Chatting over the computer is NOT dating.
You have never met him, so you cant love him. It may be a crush, infatuation, in love with the IDEA of being in love. But you are not in love.
Red flag "we cant stop fighting. if it is like this through texting and phone calls will it be worse after we meet?"
You are fighting already and you have never met? WARNING. He wont change just because you meet him in person. That is him.
My advice, do NOT meet him. Block him on all your internet sites and your phone. This guy will do you no good and you will get hurt. Maybe even physically as well as emotionally.
Find a nice boy in your neighbourhood who you can date properly.
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