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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :)But i have a few questions, not exactly problems,1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a very sexual relationship (were not) and she keeps talking to me about how to be safe and how she doesnt think im ready and i do honestly try and tell her im not in that kind of relationship, how do i make her listen to me?2. Ive given my boyfriend a handjob 3 times now, everytime he cums within a very short amount of time (like a minute or two), im not complaining or anything, im just wondering is that normal?3. My ex boyfriend, keeps saying to me 'can we carry on from where we left off, when you and (current boyfriend) spilt up?' we had a sexual relationship... (im still a virgin though) he wasnt overly nice to me, unless he wanted something, but at the moment he is being nice and friendly and calling me beautiful and things, i have no intention of getting back with him, im just wondering, what are his intentions? Why does he only car about me now im with someone else?Thank you :)
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 1. Well a hand job is a sexual favor, so technically your relationship is slightly sexual..
Your mother is trying to be a mother and educate you about sex..and wanting you to be safe, and what the legal age of consent is. Just let her know you understand, and when the time comes you will ask her to take you to get birth control. All she needs is reassurance.
2. If he's around your age, then yes that's normal. He will eventually build up a tolerance.
3. Your ex boyfriend was using you for sex before..and he wants you back so he can do it again but this time possibly take it further..I.e. take your virginity. Don't go back to your ex boyfriend, it will never be anything but purely sexual.
My advice, listen to your mother she is wise. You may think she doesn't understand but she does know a thing or two about sex because she had you.
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