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*rthurhkt
writes:Hi, I am Arthur from Malaysia, i am a Chinese currently 20 and studying/working part-time, well i just broke up with my ex girlfriend(now 18 and just went in to college), we having our relationship for 2 and half year, well normally we will have some arguing, and partly i don't have time to accompany her, well until last month, we have some argument and end up she want to broke up, after that she told me she giving me another chance to chase her, she currently don't have any new target and she will be lonely without me around, and the reason she dump me is because i don't have car, i listen too much to my mom words, i have no time(this all make me little bit irritating actually) and my attitude problem (i agree and i change it already), but between that time i still start to contact her like hope she giving me a chance or ask her she sill have feel to me o not(she said little bit), but after 2 weeks since we broke up, i try to call her again, she told me to forget her she is not a good girl or etc... then until the end she said she got new boyfriend and i am the one who force her to say so, then she said she start love this new guy is because when after 1 week we broke up this new comfort her when 1 of her subject failed.. So she accept him, i do a lot of stupid thing like begging her and tell her do you know she hurt me, she say yes and no reason.. But until the end she told me, i still can like her, but she don't know i still got the chance to get her back or not, after that i still try to call her out and she don't want at all. After that, i apply the no contact rule and after 3 weeks time she start to contact me through MSN(she never text me since then), asking me things like when do you want to take your changer, when do you move your house? when do you get your car? and how do you celebrate your birthday and telling me her life is very boring now. But until now she still with her new boyfriend for 1 month already, and from what her blog written seem she very happy now... But honestly, i very love her and want to get her back, please anyone can help me to duel with this kind of cases? i really hope can get her back... plus next week her birthday what should i do...
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reader, doom  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 I'm sorry if i'll be rude, or hard on you but man...be a man: how can you be so pathetic to a girl and every time listen to her when she says:"you don't have a car" if she liked you she would never say that.In my oppinion she is a material girl,or maybe i'm wrong.(write smth about this)
If she has a new bf, it meens she forgot you fast....i think you should do the same thing.Try to change something in your life, and the first thing forget her,if you 2 ar ement togethe rshe will come back to you,and then you will decide if you really want to be with her.
Good luck
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