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writes:Soon after my 18th birthday, i was slightly annoyed at my boyfriend for not taking me out, but then the argument progressed. and then ended up with him finishing with me. However my now ex, has issues with trying to be himself, instead he wants to be like his mates, and i thought it was just a bit strange that he finished me when he was with them, as they've always tried to break us, and now they've won. I know what your all going to say, that if he loved me blah blah he shouldnt listen to them, however even his GIRL friends and his cousins, have told me he has always been the same, so i know he has issues. But the whole point why i'm actually writing to dear cupid is that, i love him, well i think i do. I been with him 3 years and now he says he dont love me, its over etc. Im finding it very hard, i tried begging for him back, which i know i shouldnt of! :/ but i was that emotionally upset, anyhow he didnt take none of it, but i try and text him, and im trying to get him to meet me. But yet he still dont want to, i know i need to move on, but im finding unbelievably hard. I know i cant make him love me, or want me. But ive never felt like this before for someone. i just dont know what to do .. i want him back so bad.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 First, make a pact with yourself that you will stop contacting him, he has already indicated he doesnt want to even meet with you, so leave him be, before you set free that crazed stalker we all have the capacity to be.
You are going to have to do this one day and a time, just like quitting cigarettes or alcohol, get some friends on board if you feel it would help, and whenever you get the urge to text or call him, text or call them instead!
Once you back off, he might have some space to be able to see clearly, of course there is a chance he still might not be interested in you, but if that is the case it was going to be anyway, regardless of your actions.
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