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writes:There's this girl that I know I love. (We'll refer to her as Girl A) I have no doubts about it, I'm absolutely certain of it. We've been best mates for a few years now, and I was recently trying to find the courage to tell her how I felt. We were at a party yesterday and everything was fine, then I started talking to one of her mates (Girl B), just the usual banter and stuff like that. It was on facebook and we were showing eachother groups that we thought were appropriate to the other, and Girl A got jealous of this. I spoke to her and she told me that she was upset because I had "replaced her with her mate (Girl B)" So I told her then and there that I loved her, and I told her how much she ment to me. I poured my heart and soul into this one paragraph, and she responded with "k whatever". I just snapped, I've been in tears since then, which was atleast 3 hours ago now. The fact that I put everything into telling her how I felt and she just tossed me aside. she won't talk to me and has now replaced me with someone else. I just don't know what to do. I still love her, I can't stop thinking about her, but at the same time I just want to speak to her again... I'm just so upset I haven't got a clue.Thanks
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reader, Vivee  +, writes (25 October 2010):
She is very insecure... If you are up to the challenge of being with someone who will always need reassurance then she is the right girl for you. No matter how many times you tell her you love her from now on she will continue to bring this up. Ask yourself if this kind of behavior is something you are ready for. If so then reassure her every time you talk that you love her and don't forget that when she asks you a question to care and consideration about how your answer will effect her emotionally when it comes to the relationship. I used to be this way too... that is until I learned that I love myself and decided I did not care what my bf (now ex) thought... Good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to be clear, she doesn't know that I snapped. And what I snapped at was the fact that she completely disregarded all the passion I put into what I said and then continued to ignore whatever I said.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I don't think it was sheer rejection, it was more or less jealousy getting the best of her..which that's absolutely silly to get jealous over. Just give it a week and then talk to her about what happened. Apologize for snapping on her, you just felt she was blowing it way out of proportion..then let her know what you said was true. She won't agree to talk to you, send her a message on Facebook. If she ignores it, then it's her problem, you've said your piece..As far as I'm concerned she needs to be apologizing to you for overreacting..
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