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male
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anonymous
writes:I was invited to a Halloween party by my friend and her friend Casey. I'm really interested in Casey but I'm shy and I haven't really gotten to know her that much. I've only hung out with her(and my friend) once before and last night they came over to my house to drop off an invitation. I felt really nervous when I first saw her but she was really nice to me and she was the one who did most of the talking.I'm wondering what can I do to get to know her while I'm at the party? And how can I subtly let her know that I'm interested? I don't have much experience with girls and sometimes it's hard to keep a conversation going. It just feels kind of weird for me to just go up and talk to her. And I sorta feel like if I do that it'll be obvious that I'm into her or something. Am I wrong about that?Also what kind of stuff should I ask her? Are people receptive to things like, what things do you like to do? To me that seems a little to personal right away and out of the blue.Her number and my friends number is on the invitation and I was thinking maybe I could call her and ask her if I could bring something to the party but that just seems like I'm trying too hard because like I said I don't know her to well and why would I all of a sudden call her and not my friend?
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reader, dantheman852 +, writes (25 October 2010):
Just be flirty. Girls love it when guys flirt with them, especially at parties or when they're around their friends. Just go over there and start flirting. Minor stuff at first, like playful banter. Then move onto the bigger stuff, in my experience sexual inuendos work a treat if used well
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice but I'm still not sure about what to say to her.
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reader, dantheman852 +, writes (24 October 2010):
Give her a call, and ask her if she needs any help setting up before the party, or if she wants you to bring any drinks or snacks. If she says yes, then it's likely she's interested. Take your chance and spend most of the party dancing with her. If she says no, just strike a conversation with her while she's with the friend that you know.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): at the party speak to her alot, go over to her and offer her a drink but dont be too pushy, there is a chance that she likes you too. ask her about her life and her interests, that always gets a girl talking :)
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