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My cousin and I are crushing on each other!

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Question - (24 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

A few nights ago my first cousin and i went to play basketball and while we were playing he told me that he has a crush on me. I wanted to tell him that i have had a crush on him since i was seven! but i just couldnt. we had just finished playing when he pulled me close and gave me my first kiss. i was so scared and nervous i didnt know what to do. we want to be together but our family would not be happy at all. we want to get closer to each other and have sex. i dont know what to do. should i ignore my feelings for him? or should i follow my heart? please help.

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A female reader, meghanbaybii Ireland +, writes (27 October 2010):

Hello........:P

i think that it will only cause trouble if you do that because your family might find out and it might cause a fight between both families right now it might seem hard to except that you will just have to let him go and still be friends but in time you will see that it will be a good choice x.x.x.x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010):

eww! that is just plain out sick. what are yuo thinkinh????!!! dont do it itll be the worst mistake youll ever make in your entire life. plus your famikt might hate you for it forever.

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A male reader, dantheman852 United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2010):

While being with your cousin isn't incest, it is socially frowned upon. However, as a true believer of the heart's judgement - I'd say go for it. Both of you tell your families together when you feel the time is right. I'd hold off the sex for a while, but if you like eachother, then do it.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

he is your cousin. sorry to say but you will never be looked at the same if you choose to date your cousin. you will have to go through life being made fun of because of the decision you made to date your cousin...i wouldn't recommed it.

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