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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:hiya i'm having some trouble with this guy.i have probably only known him for 3 weeks now. he first contacted me on facebook. he acted like he wanted to get to know me. he goes to another school but some of my friends know him so i was just being friendly (: there's no harm in that. that evening on msn he asked me for my phone number and we texted for like agess, everyday from then! i wasn't really flirting but i kinda was :P but he was the one who i first felt was sort of pushing things on me, especially since i just met him. so i was asking my friends for help. they kept saying "ignore him" or all that. but i didn't want to. after a while he told me that he had feelings for me and i said that i was starting to fall for him. he started calling me babe and saying that he missed me and all that. every night before we went to bed he said "text me tomorrow, yes?" or "i'll text you tomorrow" and one night he said that as usual. the next day i texted him and he didn't reply at all that day. then i texted him the next day and he didnt text me back. ofcourse, i didn't know what was going on. we never had any argument and i don't recall saying anything to upset him. he hasnt talked to me for nearly a week now and just yeaterday i tried talking to him.. i asked him why he was avoiding me and he acted like he didnt know what i was talking about. he was very abrupt when he talked to me aswel, mainly he just says hi. then i gotta go bye. and thats it. it kinda hurt me. i don't know whats going on and everytime i try to find out he just acts like nothing happened. i like him and now that i'v made a friend, i don't want to lose him. it can't be him needing personal space because he was the one who was forcing things on me. i miss him now and some of my friends think that maybe he heard a rumor or one of his friends told him something or something like that. i really want to find out. i need a guy and a girls point of view with this please. but i just need some help and advice. i just need to sort this out. its throwing me off balance with other things. how would i sort things out with him. i need to clear things up. i kind of do want to get into a relationship with him. but putting that aside i just want to know that things are okay between us. i find myself thinking of it all the time and i just want to sort it out. thank you.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 The best way to sort out this problem is to get over it. Its hard but the longer you think about it, the more its going to upset you. Who knows why is acting like that. Its his loss. Find a another guy that you fancy !
Take care !
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