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writes:Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a sms, where a friend of her wrote if she is ready for next month and wanted to meet each other. I told my gf on the phone that she had a sms, and she asked me to read it and reply also. Then the second time from the same girl(I know that girl) she received: “hope you bf likes it, but as I told you no sex from me, just crazy stuff with you to make your bf crazy :p “ well I know that girl, in fact she likes kissing and touching with girls and their bf is in the room, then she leaves and they continue with sex.Like a threesome, but just you don’t touch the other girl or have sex with her…hope you understood.So I don’t really know how to react, I like the idea, but I love that girl and want to make a family with her in the future know she wants to make me a surprise kissing and touching other girl in front of me…but I’m really confused… should I ask her, what should I do, or accept her little fantasy.Thank you for reading my long text
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reader, doom +, writes (25 October 2010):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the question In fact, i think it's over. My gf told me that she thinks it's a bad idea....at the beggining she thaught it would be fun,but then she told me, that i'll be watching another girl naked and she will be hurt.As i will want mor ein the futur and cheat on her.And her second argument was that the other girl body is better,and she feels bad about the idea.....I'm a bit disspointed,but i can't force her to do such a thing if she doesn't want it.....hhhmmm a guys dream broken...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Thats what you need to talk to your girlfriend about. You should read up on threesomes or even search the archives here on dearcupid to find some more information, as repeating it on here would take too long. But there is lot of excellent advice out there.
Things you want to know: the do's and dont's, rules, stop-words, what happens if this or that, and what do both of you want out of this threesome, what are your expectations etc.
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reader, doom +, writes (25 October 2010):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondear chigirl,i want it i really do,but as i heard it can go wrong. I don't really know what to do when they'll begin touching kissing etc....
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reader, chigirl +, writes (25 October 2010):
Don't just accept it if you don't want it. She obviously is doing this for YOU, so if you don't like it there really isn't a point to it is there?
This is noting to be scared of, you simply tell your girlfriend your thoughts about it. If you don't want to then don't do it. If you aren't sure yet then wait until you know for sure what you want. This isn't something you need to decide on right now, just tell your girlfriend you need some time to think about it before you make up your mind.
And talk about it. And read up on threesomes and understand that there can be consequences.
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reader, doom +, writes (24 October 2010):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's not that i'm don't want...i want to do somehting new, it's just i don't know what should i do , or what should i do not do...you know, i'm a guy, who doesn't like seeing two naked girls in front of you.
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