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writes:I told a friend, well i thought she was a friend about 2 years ago that am into girls and guys i thought i could trust her with my secret because i was too scared to tell my parents. i was afraid they wouldn't accept me. well the next day i walked into class and some of the boys were laughing at me i said whats your problem. they replied. am not the lesbian here. i couldnt believe she told people. i looked round at her and she put her head down i was so angry i wanted too cry. Over the next few weeks after she told everyone none of the girls wanted too talk to me they said "am not talking too her she might feel me up you no try and kiss us" i had never felt so shit in my life. everytime i walked past people in my year people in my year would shout in my face lesbian or dyke. i always cried in the toilets for then on i hated school and every morning i knew i was gonna be in for the same abuse i got the day before my parents noticed me changing, that i was no longer happy. i couldnt even look at my ex best friend without wanting too go up and punch her so hard in the face. i hated her and i still do. I am 15 now, nothing has changed, the girls still dont like me and no one wants to be my friend. I am so lonely, i want people to like me but they never gave me a chance. can someone please give me advice on how to make friends or how to make people like me. thank you. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): In life you will meet many people who hurt you and many people who will love and cherish you. You are in a tough position because school aged kids are not the kindest people sometimes. Because of the harsh school environment, people tend to join cliques and eer away from anyone different. There are probably some individuals who would be your friends if they weren't so afraid of what others would think. In school, don't take any abuse from these people, if they say they are scared you might like them, tell them its okay, you don't go for uglies...I mean ..grow a thick skin. If they see they aren't getting to you, the teasing will stop. Don't be so worried about being friends with people who are not willing to give you a chance. Join a club etc outside of that environment. Being able to trust others will take time but you will get there.
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reader, png526  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 In all honesty, If people dont want to except you for who you are then you dont need to be friends with them. You need friends that are ok with what makes you happy and by the sounds of it, your not gonna find them in your school. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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