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male
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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex had a long distance relationship, she didnt like it even though it was just an hour train trip, so she had doubts whenever i went home so she ended it next day after i seen her.she turned nasty 2 days later saying she didnt love me and i meant nothing to her, she wants me out her life and wants to move on, which was pretty hurtful that happened too quick.she was reluctant to be friends so it took hours to convince her to be friends, but it didnt go that smoothly, i got a bit obbsessive and possesive and she said stalkerish, but it was more a lot of texts and calls, but it was down to jealousy and paranoia, but they didnt bother her that much as she asked me for several favours throughout, but now she already has started dating which really hurt me.so recently its hit me i shouldnt be such an idiot and that being friends is more important to me, so i told her this and said i wouldnt get in the way of her moving on i promise, she seems against us being friends and telling me to go die, which i dont think i deserved. I'm texting her a lot saying sorry and im panicking because i feel its all my fault and i dont want her to hate me and i dont want her thinking bad of me, she is just ignoring me and i aint sure i done anything that bad, i know i should leave it now and stop, but i known her 5 years and and we were together for 2 months so it aint worth throwing away
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): She is probably dating someone else now. I am going through the same thing with the father of my child. I believe we sometimes are right for someone but just at the wrong time. Relationships are determined by four things; maturity, age, experience, and my favorite, "the one." Sometimes you have to let go of what is holding you back. If someone is right for you there will be no games. There will be no fear and above all, there will be no wondering. You will know when the right girl comes along, and because this girl is not only giving you the brush off but telling you to "go die," you probably need to back off and give her the space she needs. When she comes around brush her off. I know that I am a woman and should be siding with women...but since this girl knows she is not the one for you give her the brush off and if she never calls, texts, emails you again, GREAT for you. More fish in the sea. Patience my friend the right one will come in time...
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