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female
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30-35,
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writes:So I just had this disagrement with my dad.. I ask him if he could pay for my cap and gown... I didnt think it was a big deal.. Then I ask him if he could pay half of my senior pics.. He had agreed on everything... Than later right when I was telling him I had to go home... (I live on my own).... He flips out and told me that my boyfriend was worthless.. I dont know why he sid that in the first place.. I didnt say anything, then he told me I should tell my bf to pay for everything Im asking him to pay for... I told him whatever I will pay for it myself... Then he went on about how the next time he sees my bf hes going to fuck him up.. I said well you wont see him anymore so its whatever... I had left nd called my bf and told him what had happened. He didnt know what to really say at first. Then he said that what my dad was was true.. Then he asked why are you really with me? When he asked me that the first thing that went through my head was he didnt really just ask that (very unexpected)... I told him that I was with him because he made me happy... He then told me he was sorry he couldnt help.. I told it him there was no need to say sorry it wasnt his fault.. Then told him if I wanted his help would have ask him in the first place but I asked my dad because thats what a parent is for.. I told him that I dont care what he cant help me with it because thats not what I look at.. I look at the fact that he has plans in life and knows what he wants to do.. Thats what I like and that I'm there to support him in any way I can.. Thats what I really look at because there's nothing we need to rush on because were both really young and have along way ahead of us..He then told me he loves me then I told him I love him.. Not to worry about my dad and what he said... But when I got done talking to him.. All that went through my head was why did he ask why am I with him.. Like what was he really trying to say? Reply to this Question
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reader, png526 +, writes (24 October 2010):
 First off, If you are living on your own I dont think your parents should have a say so in who you date or choose to be with. They are your parents and should be happy with whatever makes you happy. And as for your bf, I think he asked you that because of what your dad said. Your dad probably made him feel worthless.He was probably just doubting himself and agreed with your dad. And I also think he just wants you to show and tell your true feelings for him. Try telling him exactly how you feel dont leave anything out. Hope this is helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): Your boyfriend is just feeling a little down about not be able to help you out with things like that. but your dad should relize that, paying for things is a resposisblity of being a parent.
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