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*oniqueEE
writes:I was kind of seeing a guy before my holiday, which was 2 months long. We were having fun and it was all great.I'm back now and things have changed. I messaged him asking how he was and he said that he was now running his company because the boss was away for a month. He asked how my trip was and the he would have to cancel his social life for a few weeks.(He's the co-founder)He seems to be ignoring me and I don't know what I've done. I messaged him today asking for the name of a certain restaurant we went to before and he actually replied. It just said the name of the place. Felt a bit cold but it was a reply.Needless to say I just want to know if I should leave him. I've never stuck where I wasn't wanted.What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, TheFlash07  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 what do you mean with "I was kind of seeing a guy" were you or weren't you? Do you love him?
Could be any number of reasons, maybe his feelings changed towards you, 2 months is a long time. Or it's also possible he needs to focus on work rather then love at the moment.
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reader, shania +, writes (24 October 2010):
 He might have second thoughts about you now, maybe he isn't as keen as he was before? Ok...stop all contact, no emails, no phone calls or text messages...just disappear from his radar.He will be expecting you to do all the running while he plays God. Carry on with your life...meet new people,have fun! Dont hang around for him..let him miss you...then if he's keen enough then he will contact you...but play it cool.
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