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I'm confused. I think I want to have sex with a woman!

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Question - (24 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey

I'm 19 years old and I think I want to have sex with a woman. I only feel like this when I watch lesbian porn, but when I don't I do NOT think of woman like that, I would rather have sex with a man which I have. But I've been with a woman before also, when I was 16 but I barley remember if I enjoyed it or not. I think I try to forget. And the first time I had sex with a guy was when I was 17 and he was horrible, the sex lasted for about 5 mins. So I didn't have sex with until 8/9 months later and it was with a guy and it was really good, and I didn't think about having sex with a woman at all. So am I bi or ??? I know I do NOT want to be in a relationship with a woman, but with a man YES!!! I'm confused....

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A male reader, ice_4fire India +, writes (6 November 2010):

Hi!

In this age, these things happen.

From biological viewpoint, every human being when seeing any naked body regardless of gender is attracted towards it.

So its okay if you are getting attracted towards girls while watching porn or while in your personal moments.

No need to worry or get confused since you are not alone with this feelings in this world for sure.

Be happy.

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A male reader, Cupid Boy Canada +, writes (25 October 2010):

Cupid Boy agony auntMaybe the porn is what's confusing you and messing with your mind. If you have no interest in an actual relationship with a woman, what's the point of going down that path? Lesbian fantasies can be just that -- fantasies. You don't need to indulge every whim that porn puts in your brain. Find a guy who fulfills every part of you, not another girl who can give you only sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

it's perfectly normal to be turned on by women. I believe any sexual thing someone sees may turn them on. but that doesn't mean your bi/leb. but i guess you will have to decide youself if your straight or gay...noone can tell you. thats something you have to figure out on your own.

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