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writes:i feel replaced by my other friend all because of this one fight but i've done everything to apologize and i still have this feeling. when i ask her to hang out she just gives me an excuse and i hear that she went to hang out with my other friend and its been the same thing. i feel like crying but why should i if she doesnt want to be my best friend again...i dont know what to do adivice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Well I have done almost the same thing with my beat friend, and I thought she was ignoring me. So I was pissed and I let the anger get the best out of me. I made her very upset after she found out I said bad things about her that I didn't really truly mean, and so I took most of my time most of the day to let her know that deep down inside I care about her and I was very sorry and I still am.. So I know exactly how you feel when it comes to fighting with a friend. I don't want to lose her and our friendship. So here's what I did, I let her know that I still cared and I was very very sorry for what I said and did, and I told her I was crying still as I typed, and I love and care about her as a friend as my own sister and nothing will change that. So try saying the same thing, and let her know how you feel. It will take time. And MOST of ALL, PRAY to God, and ask for hope to win her back as a best friend ^^
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 You lose, time to move on and go find another fish in another pond.There is nothing you can do here. Might as well go out there and enjoy yourself.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Sorry sweetheart but it's going to take some time to get back to something similar to what you had before the fight and you just have to be paitent. You will have to keep trying and waiting in the wings until she is ready to trust again. Hang in there it will get better.
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