A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Whenever I talk to her she looks very unsure of herself and doesn't say much other than yes or no. I have talked to her while she's at her locker and she has dropped her books 3 times so far as if I've startled her.She never tries to prolong conversations but she does smile and laugh a lot and her voice tone is different to when she talks to other people. I catch her looking and smiling at me everyday but she'll quickly look away if I look at her. Sometimes she might make long eye contact (~3 seconds) with me from a distance and then walk away before I can approach her. If we pass by each other in the hallway I can feel this tension and awkwardness between us.I thought she liked me but when I tried to talk to her a few days ago while she was clearing out her locker on the last day of school she said she couldn't talk because she was "really busy" but in a nice tone of voice. She looked very flustered and in a hurry and dropped her books again and left some behind in her locker. (It was the first time I ever actually used her name while talking to her if that makes any difference.) When I was helping her pick up her books she started humming and when I said bye she didn't reply. A few weeks earlier she rejected a friend request on Facebook.So does she like me or do I creep her out?
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (8 June 2010):
Oh boy, she likes you alright. She's probably cursing her nerves everytime she's around you, hence the awkward and sometimes contradicting behaviour. She just doesn't know how to behave around you and is afraid to mess up and make a fool of herself. That's why she's being so clipped and telling you she's busy.
I used to be this way myself, hence why I recognise what you've written. Just try to make her more comfortable. That's the only advice I can give you.
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reader, willi.joe +, writes (8 June 2010):
obviously she got herself a BF and she has attraction towards you. so she cant be with two guys at the same time.
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